The power consumption matter in general is way overblown ifyou are talking about power bills. There will be not a single difference in your power bills no matter what cpu you choose.
Think about it, even for gaming where you claim 100 w difference. The tests are done with a 4090. When the GPU alone draws up to 450w - or 500w for the non reference models, that's 550w from the wall just for the GPU alone. Let's say another 100 for the rest of the system besides the CPU, you are already hitting 660w. Add the monitor, which can get up to 100w if you are using a 40" oled like me, now you are close to 800w. Whether your CPU draws 70, 100 or 130 won't make much difference at this point.
Besides, you can power limit any CPU for gaming to whatever you feel comfortable with. On the other hand you CANNOT power limit a ryzen CPU to consume less power at idle and light loads, it will constantly use 5 to 10 times more power than Intel for simple tasks like browsing excel youtube etc.