If you disconnect from Democracy, you will get autocracy.
GL with that.
Its an illusion that any system is perfect. Democracy isn't perfect. It requires work. Continuously. Freedom takes effort. If you don't like your democracy, look in the mirror. We have ourselves and only ourselves to blame for the corruption of it. Our own self-centric view on the world is the primary cause we stopped thinking about the collective which is inherent to any society. This happens in all democracies as people get their security, and their welfare, its also much more agreeable to just hide and not partake in society a whole lot - nothing's forcing you to.
Comfort is a bad thing, in that sense. So apparently, for people to get how good they have it, they need to first experience how bad it can get. Well, the trajectory is currently towards extremely bad, so you'll get your lesson soon enough.