Well, perhaps age or general maturity in terms of knowledge and purchases over time is also a factor. On the one hand, I totally get you. I was at a point some years ago where every new graphical/visual upgrade was like a new world opening up to me and while gaming it actually felt that way too. From extended draw distance in WoW or Elder Scrolls Online (modding) to Crysis 1-3's graphical fidelity with volumetric clouds and all. And then there is a point where it starts to matter a whole lot less, because you realise underneath the visual sauce the same games are just being rehashed in front of your eyes. To me, mechanics/ conceptual game designs that are extremely well thought out win the day now and I can look back at a long history of graphical upgrades that eventually really didnt offer me 'more game' or 'more immersion'.
Its like alcohol or drugs. Your first high/trip is the best one, and all that comes after is just trying to achieve that same sense of 'wow' ; might occasionally, briefly, even achieve it but it will never truly beat that first experience. The edge is off and it wont come back. Addicts try to keep finding it nonetheless and lose themselves in their search. There is more to life though
If I place that lens on RT, for myself, I just see yet another incremental, small improvement to graphics that never changes, makes or breaks the game underneath. Not worth chasing the drugs dealer for. Ill just enjoy a sunny afternoon with a two dollar craft beer instead and avoid the hangover. Because in the end that drugs dealer is the synonym for a commercial push so you can make another guy rich. He isnt doing it to make you feel better. Thats something you can only achieve yourself and doesnt require money.