I tried most of the suggestions that was posted by members, none of those worked. But this trick seems to work so far!!
After you hit connect to a server/game you like to join and when the little BF4 icon appears on the taskbar, click the battlelog page and hit F12 key (which opens the debugger and all the blah blah), leave it on, go play the game for whatever long you want to, exit, now close the battlelog page no more 'kaboom'. The error doesn't occur!!!
I was tracing why a web page was slow at work and thought why not try the same thing to see what happens and it works so far. If I don't hit F12 the error still pops up.
For now this 'bandage' works, I will keep limping until I get time to reinstall windows and all the programs I use.