Desktop recording has been problematic on laptops for so long, I can't even rule out that they may have removed the option because they haven't simplified it since Geforce Experience has existed. You'd think they would just simply add a working option like any other recording software. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't, gotta just hope a new game doesn't force you to update drivers if it does work lol.
This is one of the drivers that Windows says is incompatible. That I know for sure worked last month.
https://www.nvidia.com/drivers/results/152009
I will see if the Nvidia forum can come up with anything good but considering for the past 5 years its been a problem and people simply recommend going to the privacy settings that doesn't exist. I know the option because I've used it before, but sometimes it shows up correctly and other times it does not. However This time I spent 2 hours trying and nothing worked.
But thanks for the recommendations, worst case scenario I can just use Afterburner with their own NVENC encoder to desktop capture, cuz that actually works