You know, I've been watching the things I've been saying from the beginning come true and still it's like nobody around me really listens. They parrot the little soundbites they liked and continue to act like things are magically going to be okay. It's not that I think I necessarily have an amazing grip on things... some things are just that obvious that it should be very easy to understand if you are following what is happening and consciously parsing the events in your head. So many times I have caught myself explaining things and then felt the wrinkles in my brain smoothing over at the thought that it was actually necessary to explain it in the first place. And the thing is, it isn't like I'm getting into arguments in the process. It is genuine ignorance... they legitimately just don't think to contextualize anything. When you present it the right way, they get it.
I still catch a lot of fanciful ideas and "I'm not worrying - no sense." attitudes. I try to challenge that, because this is a national emergency and people should be appropriately worried. People act like it's a bad thing to be worried when things are bad... unable to distinguish between panic and rational concern. If you can't maintain concern about something and translate that into sensible behavior without flipping tables... I honestly don't know how you get through life. There's this weird dichotomy where people seem to think that if you don't want to go full Chicken Little you have to be like Hansel and Gretel right up to the last minute.
A lot of 'hope for the best' but very little 'prepare for the worst'. Hope is powerful and it is a great thing. But in this case, it's not enough to just hope and carry on. People doing this end up ignoring risks and winding up in bad places. I've got multiple co-workers now who have this virus. One went on a cruise with her husband just before the mandates, but after it became obvious things were about to seriously ramp up. She's pretty sick but stable and functional. He is bedridden with pneumonia. Craziest part. She wanted to come into her office herself to get some things!
Another one's husband brought it back from New York, where he works in the professional golf world. This was after athletes caught it, when NYC was the unofficial epicenter. Haven't heard from them, but their whole family is stuck holed-up together, with no access to testing for her or their 3 children. Another went to Mexico for spring break and about a week later started showing symptoms. Our own principal walked into their house to deliver some packets for the online classroom stuff, not thinking anything of it, and completely ignoring where he was asked to leave it outside. He is now forced to isolate completely, with no access to a test unless it hits him. He is 66 years old. Better yet, he traveled out to Orlando, where his real home is, to stay with his wife, who has already been isolating... not knowing if he's bringing it home to his own wife.
Hopefully they will all be okay, but those are not situations anybody wants to wind up in. And somehow they still haven't seemed to learn anything. Those of us still there are lucky. As a private school, we did our spring break a little early, so most came back just as the mandates kicked-in and we cut down to only doing childcare, meaning those exposed/tested positive never came in between when they got back and when they had to quarantine.
And yet those on staff who still go to work are not following the guidelines at all and pretending things are normal, as we walk mostly empty hallways with empty classrooms. Not a one of them has mentioned much of anything about their coworkers, who are among the few cases in the county, because of the choices they made in a time when the right choices were obvious. The only thing on anybody's mind right now is getting paid... it's like somehow they still don't think that could be them, or someone they know who is high-risk.
People like to dismiss Trump for his many very ignorant remarks throughout this, saying it doesn't matter. I see the impact of it here, where a lot of people are republican and actually do trust the things he says.... without hearing all of it, even. So when he says something dumb one day and doubles back to reason the next, people often don't catch it. Though if they do, they still rationalize. You can't even question it at all. Point out any point of concern and all you get are appeals to expertise.
I'm not getting into partisanship here. I generally don't care for our partisan system. He could be democrat and I'd be saying the same thing. The point is that people look to what leaders say in order to make sense of what is happening around them. People look at what he says and construct for themselves a picture of this situation. People hear what they want to hear and then act it out. They stop trying to make sense of what's happening or what might happen, because they've been lulled over, confusing the political aspect oft discussed in the media with the actual reality. "Yeah, that is happening and it's serious, but Trump said..." It's funny how this plays out. People who listen to him are often totally blase. People who don't are in an inconsolable panic. Neither is really a great thing. I don't see a lot of commonsense measures and precautions.
This whole idea of disseminating panic makes sense on the surface level. But when the situation is this serious and things aren't happening that need to happen, it basically amounts to misinformation... in a time when everybody really needs to be on the same page, no less. The lack of sternness and urgency in wrangling this wild-west scenario, and the constant push of this 'light at the end of the tunnel' narrative cooked up with scraps, is NOT helping the average person in America better deal with this at all. It only ensures that if things get really bad, they will be that much worse. If there was ever a time to be straight-up about everything, now would be it. Every time I watch the news, I generally see two things: either unrealistic hysterics, or falsely grounded holding-out. What ends up happening is that people either panic and make things worse, or toss out the baby with bathwater... and make things worse.
The thing is, I myself have thought there was no way we could have prepared. After re-considering, I think that's horseshit. Of course we could! It's ridiculous to think our government forgot about 1918. There are organizations within the federal government dedicated to preparing for every kind of disaster up to and including a nuclear event. Somehow pandemic wasn't in the itinerary? Unlikely. So then, the question becomes, why the nonchalance with everything that's been happening in the world? Where are the action plans now? Why is it taking so long to mobilize? Or are they just not talking about it for some reason. Somewhere out there are a whole bunch of people who have been training their whole careers to make the things that need to happen, happen. But we don't hear much about that.
You want to reassure people, put a fine point on the full situation, and then talk about those things in equally clear terms. Not being mentally prepared for this is just as bad as not going through the right motions... though they seem to go hand in hand. The full reality of this crisis still doesn't register in a lot of people's minds. I almost wish they WOULD panic... be bothered... just a little. One day everyone is going to wake up and things are going to be worse than they are now, and there will be many fingers to point and much previously needless scrambling to do. People have gotten so many opportunities to recognize what's really going on and start doing the right things, but instead many have continued to resist and cling to whatever normalcy they can. I get it, but things aren't normal right now. Things haven't been normal for longer than many people are willing to acknowledge, even now. Everyone out in the USA right now who thinks this way is a huge liability. And judging by the things I see and the many stories people are telling right now, it's still way too common.
I think there is a fundamental misunderstanding of how to seek and process information these days. The way it was distributed changed drastically, but attitudes didn't. It seems silly to have to teach people how to make sense of important information, but this might be something we need to start really emphasizing in school... and really just across the board. Because right now I'm looking at a large portion of the population who's ways of dealing with information lead to mass ignorance. And it's hurting us badly in this situation. It's weird to think that Americans in an earlier time might have been quicker to make important judgements for themselves and act, in spite of the much slower speed and lower bitrate of information. But it's something I can't shake.
Maybe it's just that with so much information of varying quality, people feel freer to pick and choose what suits them, whereas in the past you couldn't afford to pontificate on unknowns, and so had to act with more caution and thoughtful diligence. In some ways, we are more civilized AND better informed... and yet less sensible.
"It's human nature." Sure it is... but so are a lot of terrible things that we've learned to better deal with over the centuries. To me, the clearest picture I have of anything right now is how fucking bad we are at handling information in general. We need to be able to change how we think and communicate in step with the growth of technology and society as a whole. If this was a test, we failed badly. I'm still trying to remain hopeful and not panic myself. Just monitoring and also balancing-out mental health as best as I can... it's just disheartening.