My stepson has had the virus for the last 8 days. he has had moderate symptoms but he has been really bad..still is.
My partner is a key worker so we have been tested 2 days ago at bristol airport.
what is strange is that she has been tested positive and my stepson tested negative. im still waiting for my results. but pretty sure i will be positive.
i know the tests are only 70% accurate but this is still bizarre.
both me and my partner have tight chests and shortness of breath now.
Well first of all be well. But that is interesting. I'm on the opposite end of that weirdness. The guy I work with most got what everyone kind of assumed would be covid, but it was never verified as being that. It hit him pretty rapidly, hard. Had all of the classic symptoms. The shortness of breath seemed rough, even on the phone, with him rushing sentences out to squeeze in shallow gulps of air. Just background wheeze the whole time, with terrible coughing spells. This man never gets sick like that. He's older but very healthy and active. Every time we've both caught the same thing, it got me nearly twice as bad as it got him. But he sounded like he was into the early phases of pneumonia... overnight. It was legitimately concerning because I know those sounds from when my dad had it so bad he was borderline suffocating (and sounded like it,) one step from the ER. Sounded quite the same. On day 5 his results came back negative. He said they did the nose test, the early one where they jam that big thing up and it's really unpleasant, not the dainty swab.
He stayed pretty sick that whole two weeks... I spent a good bit of time talking to him over the course of things, being on defacto quarantine myself. Everything that he was describing matched up and he had said it felt 'different,' like a combination of severe flu and walking pneumonia. He really had to stress that he couldn't wrap his head around it. We were all very worried for him - I believe he's 62. Anybody can sound sick on the phone. This dude was siiiiiick. He didn't really start getting better until a few days before his quarantine would be due up, either. He of course went back to the doctor before going back to work, but the doctor didn't want to test him. Gave him a check-up and said he was good to go.
But then, after getting the z-pak and I think some antibiotics he did improve. He said the doctor was very dismissive once the test came back negative, so I can only assume that whoever went over the results with him was very confident in the reliability. But then, they provided the standard relief for C-19, so who knows? Of course they're gonna give it to someone showing similar symptoms, even if they're negative. Realistically, it could've been anything, but with this C-19 miasma hanging over like it has, it all feels a little strange.
I was fine, even having worked closely with him long before that. Of course, they wouldn't test me, not having symptoms. I do wonder what the result might've been. Wouldn't that have been something? Guy with symptoms is negative, after being in contact with an asymptomatic guy who's positive. If I had it, what he was showing symptoms of might've been too. It should've been a pretty sure bet, honestly. It wouldn't have been avoidable. Could just have been one of those spooky coincidences, though. Jeez does that mess with my head though
I hope you all manage okay. Don't let the internet rot your brains, though. People keep saying 'thank god for all of us having the internet right now!' I say that sounds insane... locked in the house for 2 weeks online is nothing if that's what you do, but going from a more active life to that will shut half of your brain off in just that first week. Probably the best, actually usable advice I can give you is to find as many ways as possible to keep your mind hooked-in. I treated my time away like a reset button and since then I've been in a different frame of mind. It basically amounts to living very simply for a while, so if you have the important stuff squared away, it's a great opportunity to really stop and think, because pretty much all you can do is let go of everything - just break away.
This is probably the worst possible way for it to come about, but I think people might have needed to stop for a while and have a little self-humility check. It sucks being locked in, but I wonder why really, with the seriousness, people are still bent on resisting that, even when it's not about money. I half wonder if a few of them might not be able to process the idea of being home with themselves for a prolonged period. A lot of people go years without that even being a part of their reality. So the idea doesn't make sense to them - something is wrong with that. The impulse to go out is a way of reconciling it. People may rationalize it after the fact, but I really think they just get up and go and don't think about it... even after collectively spending 33% of the day talking about C-19
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