It's not how I would have made a connector capable of twice the power of an 8pin.
The smaller and shorter contact areas involved in power transfer have less physical margin for error and less actual contact area, but connectors like these have been in use for some time now, they're not that new in principle but I think they exceeded sensible limits while reducing the over engineering so fails are worse.
I have had issues with 8pin connections tarnishing with heavy use but that used to result in crashes, to me something about Nvidia's new power regulation circuitry is working different, IE perhaps better than it previously was so issues with power spikes and dips are not causing a crash, they roll on exasperating the issue at its power inlet, which in the past would have crashed the GPU.
Possibly dirty contact's or poor coating on the odd one.