Having used Micro-Fit connectors for years, I have no issue with the quality of the connectors, the size of the pins, the rated number of cycles, or any of that. Obviously a manufacturer other than Amphenol or Molex might produce a lower quality clone, but I'd personally only ever use the real thing from an official distributor such as Mouser, so that's irrelevant to me.
But I read the spec sheets and follow them to the letter; personally, I try not to load crimp contacts beyond about 50% of their rated maximum. My issue with the 12VHPWR / 12V2x6 is that both of the major manufacturers (Amphenol and Molex) have taken time-proven connectors and repurposed them to be used at a much higher current rating than they were ever rated for before. And to make matters worse, they're being USED at very close to that maximum. There's absolutely no margin for error, anywhere.
I don't see how, in the case of Amphenol Minitek, a contact that was previously rated for 7.5A on a 2x6 is suddenly safe at 9.5A. It may be that the contacts were previously derated to provide a built-in safety factor, and were always capable of more. But that just means the safety factor has already been reduced massively before you even get into any issues of user error, rough handling, longevity, load balancing or anything else.
The connectors are great when used judiciously, but their choice for use in the 12V2x6 specification is... questionable.