Your English is way better than my Spanish! If you don't understand any of my reply just ask me to clarify things.
The basic formula temperature software uses is this:
Reported Temperature = TjMax - Digital Thermal Sensor Reading
All programs are reading the same data from the same digital thermal sensor on the CPU. The difference is some programs have decided to assume TjMax=100C while RealTemp is using TjMax=85C. One of the reasons RealTemp uses 85C is because I tested an E2160 - M0 which is very similar to your E4500 - M0 and it was 85C, not 100C. Both have the same CPUID code which is 0x6FD.
Most software doesn't seem to do any testing but here's the kind of testing I do:
http://www.xtremesystems.org/forums/showpost.php?p=2844886&postcount=423
At default settings, the E4500 runs quite cool. People think they run hot because they have been using the wrong TjMax so the reported temperatures have been wrong for a long, long time.
Here's some thermal throttling testing I did on my E6400 which also uses a TjMax=85C.
The PROCHOT# section in RealTemp monitors the information in a Core processor that keeps track of when your processor is hot and has started thermal throttling. As you can see, that doesn't usually start to happen until 83C! Core1 is still fine at 81C. When you were at 74C according to RealTemp, you still had another 9C to go before throttling begins.
If you were gaming when this happened, even after you stopped the game and your core temperature returned to normal, this check mark would still be set. This is a record if there was any thermal throttling since you started your computer. This will only be cleared if you restart your computer. If this box is not checked, then your computer has been running at full speed without any throttling activity.
Thermal throttling is when your processor starts to slow down to control temperatures. Your E4500 will cycle your CPU multiplier back and forth from 11.0 to 6.0 which will lower your MHz and reduce the amount of heat being put out. It will do this so quickly that when it first starts to happen, most software won't even report that it is happening. If you were using your computer, you might not even notice a difference in performance. If this continues to happen for a while then CPU-Z and RealTemp should start to show your CPU at reduced MHz. If it was at 200MHz x 11.0 (2200MHz) then it would drop to 200MHz x 6.0 (1200MHz)
When overclocking you don't have to worry too much about temperatures. As long as your computer is stable and it is not thermal throttling then it should be fine. The Intel Core processors do an excellent job of looking after themselves. When a CPU is too hot, you will lose stability when running Prime95 small FFTs and it will either report an error or your computer will re-boot. As long as your computer is stable then there is no need to worry about temperatures. Just run it as cool as possible to maximize stability and your ability to overclock it.
Edit: Read the
documentation to learn more about how to calibrate your sensors for more accurate idle temperatures. By using the correct TjMax, your load temperatures are very accurate even without any calibration.
When it gets this hot, call the fire department and put them on stand-by.