Then their complaining about nothing. There are no legal requirements anywhere in the world that state those making a discovery of a vulnerability have to give the manufacturers any heads up at all. So therefore any warning at all, even if a bit sloppy, is better than nothing.
There is one flaw in your logic. You don't need the car keys for that. Every car, even the newest ones, can be hot wired or tricked into operating without the key. Likewise, PC's, regardless of the OS, can be tricked into operating without the proper "keys", giving full access to the device. It is then a trivial effort to exploit them, just like a car.