Hmm, well no dice on DDR960 speeds...I got settings that passed Memtest for 24 passes (about 12 hours worth, while I was at work)...but as soon as I booted into Vista, I'd get a reboot. Vista is a good stability tester since it requires stability, if you can't successfully keep Vista booted for more than 5 minutes on an OC, you still got tweaking to do.
I tired a number of things to no avail, the longest I could stay in V64 was about 4 minutes lol, no BSOD's, it'd just reboot. I'm assuming it's just too much load on this MB for a quad core PSU and OC'd memory, maybe just this particular OC'd memory...I could at least get DDR972 out of the same memory with my dual core, but that was a helluva fight, DDR960 was easy to attain though. I may try a higher FSB with the 1:1 ratio, but it seems to overstress this board when straying from that ratio.
I haven't given up hope yet, maybe I'm running out of juice, though I would think my HX520 should be plenty sufficient for the job. Someday I may have to try a 2x2GB DDR2 kit and see what I get...hell I may decide to see what I can get with 2x1GB for the hell of it.
I've been reading through this thread, which has surpassed 100 pages (though it's only like 6 posts a page lol), has some good info on the DFI LP P35 DK T2RS board, lots of different memory, cpu's, OC's, cooling, mods, all sorts of stuff.
http://www.overclock.net/intel-motherboards/287202-dfi-lanparty-dk-p35-t2rs-thread.html
For now, I am back to my good ol' stable 3.6 CPU, DDR800 tuned settings, still rock stable and running good so no complaints over here!