Well darn, that explains it... The max for Raven Ridge is indeed 2133 with 4 SR sticks. I was looking at the manual from my phone when I was trying earlier and this is how the android reader displays it:
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Then I opened the exact same thing on the computer just now and the same table is totally different:
must be a stupid bug in the android pdf reader...
All those memory OC settings are for the other supported AM4 cpus. I guess the only option if I'm feeling adventurous in the future is to try some memory timing tweaks.
Thanks everyone for all your help and sorry for wasting your time.