By now I should have been married with children and already should have paid 40% of my house mortgage.
Who said that? I'm 33, still renting with no plan to jump in the mortgage game in the current unpredictable economic climate, and we're never gonna have children because of my girlfriend's medical issues. And we're happy.
Happiness is not about the cards life has given you. It's about playing your cards the best way you can.
I am single. I feel the reason why I never did anything important with my life is because I don't have a woman. Many guys, get motivated and step out of their comfort zone and sacrifice because they have to feed the family.
That's not how it works. Get motivated by something, live your life, be happy,
and then you might find someone compatible. Sure, having a family gives your life
some meaning, but you can't have someone to have a family with until your life has meaning.
My dream is to turn my hobby into daily work. it would be the best thing that can happen to me.
The way I see it. We hate our jobs, right? But you take the hobby and now you get paid instead, also because you work that hobby every day.... basically you get good at your hobby. Years pas by, and all of a sudden you are an expert in that field. Experts get paid more etc... It's amazing.
Normal humans do this: go to work. Hate. Get paid. Put that money into life + hobbies. I love photography. So wi ill invest in software, cameras, lenses etc. never make a single $ from hat, put I keep putting money into it. Imagine the hobby you already invest time + money to ear a living. Now that is SUCCESS.
That's risky. Chances are, you'd be happy for a short time, then the "
why do I have to do the same shit every day" would kick in after a while, just like it does in any other job. You could end up hating your hobby because it's just work. At least I would. I love cooking because I cook what I want to when I want to, but if I worked at a hotel, and had to make eggs, bacon and toast every single morning and then the same pizza and burger every night, I'd hate it.
You like photography because you take photos of the thing that interests you. But would you be happy if you had to take for example, passport photos for 8-10 hours a day every single day?