Nah, I'm not really here to be right or something.
I'm just sharing my point of view and experience, in that regard everyone can be right.
'this is how I use/treat forums in general'
I'm closing on ~3000 hours in D3 since day 1 which is almost 9 years so its not that much but enough to not fall out of the loop.
You know I'm a simple person and thats how I treat my gaming time too.
Do I have fun while playing and do I feel like playing the next day?
If the answer is yes to those then the game is fine with me and I pretty much ignore side details/whatever issues that does not bother me.
That being said I'm not blind to the problems with D3, even nowadays with all of the changes since the relase its still a rather simple game with flavor of month builds when they buff stuff and generally increase the power creep.
'Blizz likes to do that'
What I do is play solo and set my own goals so I'm not just playing for nothing, in the current season my personal goal was to reach GR 130 at least with a Hardcore Necro
'with the current meta build',ended up reaching 132 then put down the game till the next season.
'Paragon/EXP grind does not interest me at all'
Playing that way I find it fun, but to have it as a main game hell no.
I also play a different build in each season so its not all the same, sometimes meta builds sometimes a bit weaker but fun off meta builds like some of the Legacy of dream builds.
'non set builds basically'
I still have the most hours played in D3 after D2, second ones are most likely Titan Quest and Grim Dawn hand to hand then Sacred 2.
'yup I used to play that game a lot back in the days,even own the box copy'