It would be unlikely that the pins on the card are electrically separate. The 12V pins will be all one conductor, and the 0V pins will be all one conductor. Likewise, the power supply also has a common supply conductor at its end. That means the cards can't draw power down the cable unevenly.
Which all adds up to the cable, the plug in particular, being the only problem.
denial? did you watch the video? he did he measure individual cables? It directly contradicts to what you say "cards cant"
How can be copper wire faulty? it either is conduit or isnt (if it would be under spec or too thin etc, it would burn), or you think that cable manufacturer(s) are that much incompetent that they somehow manage mix wires with significantly different specs, with such difference in resistance, that one cable would allow 2amps while next wire 20 and another 8?
Also he checked his cable/connector so the plug was correctly connected , IF it would be "user error" then some other wires would show 0 amps right? which didnt, so there was contact on pins (or perhaps with lousy contact such pins would heat more, maybe like what was seen on PSU side - however in such case, with lousy contact point with higher resistance, would current rather flow via more conductive paths , other wires, so the hotspot would actually cool down as current flow switches? Sadly it wasnt possible to tell from his video if those two hot wires were same as that 150C PSU connection . But the two hot wires clearly shows they were carrying too much amps
But otherwise yes, it was said before that plug design is problem (which is still nv fault)
Or what were you trying to say? its too late, and it was kinda hard to read that sentence